Things That Will Make Your Lover Crazy About You!!

What are those qualities in boys that will attract girls? This question is most common whenever a love case is being addressed. On the other hand, the most common question among girls is what do boys notice in them?

Many studies have proved that boys don't tend to like girls who are jealous. Likewise, boys who are over possessive are disliked by girls. Such attitudes from both sides are understood as ending ones freedom. Some surveys have also proved that most men when they see a woman for the first time, notice their breasts.

According to a survey published in the American Journal of Play, men prefer those women who are physically attractive and are in good health. Generally, women who are talkative and live in an unclean manner are not liked by men. However, if even one quality of such woman is liked by a man, he tends to not notice any other thing about her and remains committed to her.

Hair
At home, the older people generally ask girls to keep long hair. Actually,long hair of girls is one of those things that attract men.

Eyes
Eyes are one thing that attracts many men towards them. Most men fall in love with women who have beautiful eyes.

Physique
A fit girl with her body in shape is the most important thing that attracts men.

Friends
The friend-circle of a girl also becomes a factor in men choosing them as their partners.

The way they talk
Men also get attracted to the way girls talk. Men love if women speak softly and slowly and smilingly.

Clothing
Your dress reflects your thinking. Your choice of dress can reveal what kind of a person you are. Simple yet good clothing attracts boys.

Height
Women with good height attract men towards them. It is also believed that women who are tall are intelligent as well.

Simplicity
Many men also get attracted to those women who are very simple. Most men look for simple wives when it comes to marriage.

Behavior
This may be the most important aspect. Girls who use men for their benefits and are always interested in spending their money for themselves are not liked by men. In such a scenario, men just hang out with such women, but never marry them.

Count Your Blessings

How often do you stop to
count your blessings?
 
In your daily struggle for more,
how often do you feel joyful and
thankful for the many, many
things you already have?
 
Sometime today, stop and take stock
of the things you have, the things you know,
the people in your life,
your spirituality, your skills, your opinions,
your special perspective on life, your
family, your hobbies, your sense of
humor, your appreciation for beauty,
your caring for others, your concern
for those less fortunate, and your
ability to see opportunity.
 
The list of possibilities is endless,
and these things all have value beyond anything you can imagine.
I challenge you to take a good
hard look at yourself and to
count your Blessings.
 
Think of as many of them as you can.
Think of the beauty and richness of
your life. These things don't require
money or power or position.
 
They all spring from your attitude,
the way you react to situations,
the way you value others, and
the way you value life itself.

Beauty Tips

For attractive lips,
Speak words of kindness!

For lovely eyes,
Seek out the good in people!

For a slim figure,
Share your food with the hungry!

For beautiful hair,
Let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day!

For poise,
Walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone!

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived,
Reclaimed, and redeemed;
Never throw out anybody!

Remember, If you ever need a helping hand,
You'll find one at the end of your arm!

As you grow older,you will discover that you have two hands,
One for helping yourself, the other for helping others!

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair!

The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides!

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul!

It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she knows,
And the beauty of a woman with passing years-only grows!

Broken Wing Love

Love heals, but love with unacknowledged 'broken wings' never gets off the ground for long. Love with a couple needs four wings to fly the highest into a freedom and bliss that remains forever. To really love, you have to 'let go' of things that create a love that flutters and gets lost in flight, even before love has really begun. Love isn't a trip to a Safari park, or to a caged love, but a journey out of all cages to a freedom beyond words that has no limits.

Love is free, but freedom has constraints! The biggest constraint is 'you' unprepared for the transcending of who you are not, but are trapped into thinking you are. An escape from all impediments, begins to heal the emotional broken wings. The birth of a new dimension in experience is in you hands to choose. No choice is a choice. Doing nothing but living out your life with no introspection is to 'bypass' the possibilities of evolving the spirit of life and love. Giving up freedoms is not just an outer containment, but an inner prison that shuts out the growth of the emotional and spiritual. The mind alone isn't adequate without paying attention to emotional/spiritual barriers.

Bonding as a couple if one or both of you is an 'emotional broken wing' from uncleared negative childhood issues is akin to 'walking a high wire tight rope' without the acquired skills. Things may at first seem good, but the issues come up and splatter the good intentions. Most are conditioned to accept problems, and end up moving around them while the intended love is kept together by fears, and well, by a fragile string. People are more prepared today to be smarter, and educated so as to be a success financially, but almost nothing in schools works on the emotional, spiritual life. Why? Easy. The teachers/professors are too emotionally/spiritually handicapped themselves!

Open communication, sound agreements, and the focus on a total heart opening are especially important if one or both partners have any unresolved issues from underlying fears, be it fear of abandonment, intimacy, trust, and so forth. The fear of 'flying, uninhibited into a total freedom of love' evades billions, and likely no one in your lineage has been able to heal into a love that transcends all blocks. Don't let it be in competition with other priorities as rarely it is not the case. The only problem in life is missing enough love! Trying to grow roses in a garden of weeds is futile. Weeds are personal insecurity, jealousies, self doubt, miseries, ego trips, being someone you are not, and on and on.

There are no tomorrows for love - only now! Time to have the courage to 'untangle' all barriers, and staying focused on the highest possibilities. No moment in history has been better for so many to fly with uninhibited love than the moment now!

What do women really want?

This is quite interesting...

(To women) Please take time to ponder...
(To men) Just enjoy the story......

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question was: What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man. And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but first he would have to agree to her price.

The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table, and Arthur's closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunch-backed and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden.

But Lancelot, having learnt of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life. And the reservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus: 'What a woman really wants?'

She said, "A woman wants to be in charge of her own life."

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth, and that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was. The neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom. And Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and, Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen was sitting by the bed.

The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth become her horrible and deformed self only half the time, and be the beautiful maiden the other half.

'Which would you prefer?' She asked him. 'Beautiful during the day or at night?'

Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day he could have a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch! Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day? But by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous moments with?

(If you are a man reading this...) What would YOUR choice be?
(If you are a woman reading this...) What would YOUR MAN'S choice be?

And Lancelot's choice is given below...
BUT... please make YOUR choice first before you scroll down below...

OKAY?

Knowing the answer the witch gave to Arthur for his question, Sir Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time... because, he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now... what is the moral to this story?

The moral is...
 
1) There is 'witch' in every woman, no matter how beautiful she is !
2) If you don't let a woman have her own way, things are going to get ugly !
So, be careful how you treat a woman and always remember: IT IS EITHER 'HER WAY' OR IT IS 'NO WAY' !!

Ways to Make Your Parents Feel Great

The parents now a days are quite worried about the behavioral changes in their children due to several socio-economical reasons. The gap between parents and us, the youth, is increasing day by day due to which the family bonding is getting weaker and weaker. We, the youth, want liberty in every deed we do. We want our parents not to be disturb us in what-ever we do in what-so-ever manner. We have forgotten the amount of time our parents have invested in for our brought up. We have forgotten the countless efforts and sacrifices by our parents throughout our lives.

Starting from our birth they have taken care of our food (22years * 365 days * 3 times = 24000 times!), our clothes (daily washing, ironing, new purchasing), our education (daily home works, uniform, school/tuition fee), religious & moral teaching every day (THE REAL GREAT JOB), computer & toys purchasing and God knows how many other countless efforts they have put in to make us a complete human being to survive in this world. Indeed, all those efforts cannot be covered in this article but the overall emphasis is that its our moral and religious mandatory responsibility to take care of them now.

Below are some small acts of kindness which I request you to consider to show your affection with them and to take care of them:

1. Give them enough money so that they don't have to ask you.

2. Share funny and entertaining things with them to make them laugh or smile.

3. Don't speak loudly. Speak slowly, nicely and softly.

4. Do not walk in front of them in market or anywhere. They might walk slow being old; stay behind them. Give them respect.

5. Ask for small tasks again and again. For example, "Dad/Mom, do you need water? Should i bring tea for you? Are you hungry, baba" etc

6. Closely monitor thier health. visit doctor if required. Have them thorougly checked time to time.

7. Take care of their medicines. Set reminders on your phone for their medicines and serve them on time.

8. Take them to the religious place. Walk slowly. Follow their pace.

9. Take them to the park for walk. If not possible daily, then take them on weekend.

10. Do not call them by their name. Call them with respect.

11. Open the door for them with respect

12. Adapt yourself according to their schedule not vise versa.

13. Do shopping for them (buy their clothes, shoes, small items like tooth paste).  Buy your mother a nice coffee cup. Take them to market and buy them according to their likings. Buy your parents some nice books; usually people love to read books in old age.

14. When you come back to home, visit them first in their room.

15. Respect thier social circle and let them enjoy with their friends.

16. In case of conflict on any issue, try to follow them as much as possible. Remember, they have been sacrificing their money and time in raising you for years and years. Its time to pay back. They have been showing all the patience during your childhood. Its time for you to be patient.

17. Keep them with you instead of sending them to old houses etc. This will be a big act of ignorance if you do.

18. When starting the food, serve them first.

In the end, I would recommend making a check list of this email and and paste it on any wall in your room or kitchen and read it often to remember

Please do share if you are doing any other good thing in making your parents feel great. :)

Perfect Life Partner

A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true. A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage." she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed, so each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists. "I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes. "What's wrong?" she asked.

"Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your lists." The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.

"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them.

We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see and praise the good and try our best to forget the bad. Nobody's perfect but we can find perfectness in them to change the way we see them.

Always remember that you can never find a Perfect partner to love you the way you wanted, only a person who’s willing to love you more that what you are. Someone who’ll accept you for what can and can’t be. And that’s even better than perfect...