31 Ways To Make a Girl Smile

Monday, May 16, 2011


1. Tell her she is BEAUTIFUL

2. Hold her hand at any moment even if its just for a second.

3. HUG HER FROM BEHIND!!!!!

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5. Wrestle with her

6. don't go hang out with you ex when shes not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.

7. If youre talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her; let her know she's yours and they aren't.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up (she loves it)

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it

13. Make her laugh

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then TELL HER(don't be afraid to)

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with his cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends

21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)

22.Kiss her just for the hell of it

23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.)

24. Remember her birthday and get her something,even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means ALL the world to her.

25. when she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)

26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

27. Give her wat she wants

28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

29.DONT hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out.

30.hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time

31.If u care about her; SHOW her! (totally)

In Pictures: How To Succeed At Office Romance

Tuesday, May 3, 2011


Avoid dating your supervisor or supervisee

Getting romantically involved with an underling or supervisor can be a recipe for disaster. Need we spell out why? Such relationships cloud the ability to make objective decisions about promotions and raises, and they damage office morale. If the relationship goes bad, the supervisor opens himself up to a sexual harassment suit.


Sign a cupid contract

If you must date a supervisor or supervisee, put some ground rules in writing. Make the consensual nature of the relationship explicit to protect against a sexual harassment suit should the romance turn sour. Colleagues who date across departments should also consider such a contract.


Go public

If you engage in the verboten supervisor-supervisee relationship, then step up and tell the human resources department you're doing so. The supervisor should do the stepping. He (and it's usually a he) is more likely to have job security. In addition, the fact that he came forward will help protect the company from a sexual harassment suit if he gets the consensual nature of the romance on the record early.




Date someone outside your department

Look beyond your immediate colleagues. Try the company softball team or one of your firm's philanthropic activities. If a relationship begun there doesn't work out, you may run into each other in the elevator once in a while, but you won't have to work together every day.




Pause before you plunge

This is obvious advice, but people must be told, says Pepper Schwarz, the author of 16 books on romance and relationships. She says to ask yourself, "Do your temperaments match? Are you a risk taker? Is the other person someone who plays around?"It could just be lust, not love.




Don't use office e-mail

If you're dating someone at the office, don't write love notes over the company's e-mail system. Your boss might read them. So might the guys in IT. Always remember: E-mail is not private.




No public displays of affection

If you're dating a colleague, keep it quiet. Don't smooch and snuggle in the office. Do go out to lunch with people other than your honey. And by all means, don't let your lovers' quarrels spill over into the office. You'll just make others uncomfortable. Or jealous.




Prepare to lose your job

Let's face it. You may not want to hang around the person who just dumped you. In many cases, broken office romances wind up with one party exiting the firm. It could be you.